Authenticity Over Perfectionism!

life becomes much more interesting when we just are our authentic selves. So why do so many of us strive to be perfect?  All too often, when we make mistakes we think we are failing, we become disheartened, we think we are not good enough or are not working hard enough towards perfection, leaving us feeling frustrated and unhappy.  Once we accept that perfection does not exist in life, life does become less complicated. Of course, we can aspire to be the best of who we are, but every one of us is different and we all have something positive to offer or give to this world. Life is continuously changing, it does not stay stagnant. Perfection may happen

Todays Reminder from DailyOm

This is today’s daily newsletter I received from DailyOm, to which I have a subscription to. In addition I receive a daily horoscope and a weekly writing lesson with ‘prompts’ to help me write my book. Writing is something I have wanted to do for most of my life, but never got around to it.

Horoscope from DailyOm Sunday 22nd November 2022.

Different Paths to Oneness LIBRA HOROSCOPENOVEMBER 21, 2021Your understanding of the significance of everyone’s life journey could make you feel more spiritually awakened today. Acknowledging that all of the people you encounter are part of the same spirit might be a way for you to move more deeply into your own spiritual development. Silently blessing

I Found My Family In My Media Files.

A Story of Christmas Past.

Once upon a time, many many miles away from here, in the North West of England, nestled somewhere between Manchester and Liverpool and not so far from the historical city of Chester, lies the town of Warrington. Once famous for its wire production and now well known for its mighty rugby team, who at one

Why Do We Always Seem To Attract Toxic People Into Our Life ?

You hate conflict. It does not matter whether you are right or wrong, you don’t care as long as the argument ends. You’ll say sorry not because you’re the one at fault, but because you just want the fight to be over. Well, that’s something that toxic people love. They want someone they can push

Some Of The Things I Do To Help Sooth Myself

A tip from one of my therapists around 7 years ago was, taking a shower; If you wake up feeling like you just want to give up, try to give yourself that little push and take a shower. Don’t be thinking that a shower is so basic, and what’s the use to drag myself out

“Remember Me – I Will Live Forever”

The day will come when my body will lie upon a white sheet neatly tucked under four corners of a mattress located in a hospital; busily occupied with the living and the dying. At a certain moment a doctor will determine that my brain has ceased to function and that, for all intents and purposes,

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep.

By Mary Elizabeth Frye Do not stand at my grave and weepI am not there; I do not sleep.I am a thousand winds that blow,I am the diamond glints on snow,I am the sun on ripened grain,I am the gentle autumn rain.When you awaken in the morning’s hushI am the swift uplifting rushOf quiet birds in

From my blog evershifting sands:

I just got notice that my blog evershifting sands will expire shortly so I wanted to move some of the entries that I posted there are not lost forever, so I am bringing them here; starting with my last entry. Eureka!!!!! I have done it. The Sands have finally shifted. It has taken me months to